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Creating The Change You Wish to Be

A 4-Month Self-Mastery Coaching Series

Facilitated by Alex Cary, MA & Amy Hruby, MA

Begins September 7, 2021

Alex Cary

Alex Cary, MA

Amy Hruby

Amy Hruby, MA

Our task is not to seek for love, 
but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself

that you have built against it.

— Rumi


It's Time...

for a radically new way of Leading and learning to Lead. 


With over 10,000 hours of conversations between us, coaching senior-level executives at Fortune 500 companies from all over the world, we know one thing: 


Love is THE MAIN requirement of Leadership. 


When we speak of leading with love, we are not talking about being soft or being a pushover, we are talking about showing up in STRENGTH, COURAGE, COMPASSION, and INSPIRATION.  We need leaders owning and demonstrating these qualities more than ever. Our homes, our communities, our offices, and our planet are currently in a crisis of leadership. We believe this crisis stems from people not awakening to their true nature which is the loving that resides in them. Fear rules the news cycle, our nervous systems, our economic decisions, and some of our world leaders. If fear is the current paradigm, what if we enacted our ultimate power: to choose. And we chose to lead with Love?  

However, in order to change something, we must first examine it. You will hear us say a lot, “Can we slow this down?” Let’s start slowing down the leadership conversation here.

Answer these questions

We invite you to read & answer the questions below. It will help you get a picture of where you are currently in your leadership. What is working and what is not...


  1. Do you find yourself holding a RESENTMENT against your spouse, friend, colleague, or family member that you’re having trouble letting go? 

  2. Are you clear about what your PURPOSE is in your life? 

  3. Did you take your last position or new role because you thought you SHOULD because you were afraid your boss or a co-worker would be disappointed in you?

  4. Do you have a VAGUE feeling that there’s something that you’re doing in your life that’s getting in your way of what you truly want?  

  5. Does inner-peace, meaning, or ENJOYMENT have a place in your work?  How about at home?

  6. Do you know how to INSPIRE and motivate yourself or those around you?

  7. Do you feel HELPLESS about global and local challenges like Covid-19, climate change, racial injustice and economic disparity?  

  8. Are you WAITING and hoping for others to lead and “fix” what's happening in the world?



Consider the fact that YOU ARE THE SOLUTION. It is with the courage, vision, hope, clarity, and compassion that is inside of you (who you are) that translates your leadership into BEING the person in the room who is effective, inspiring, motivating, and unifying. Love is the game-changer in your Leadership.  


With over 20+ years of honing their collective leadership skills, and practicing them every day, Amy and Alex have created “Leading with Love: Creating the Change You Wish to Be” as a way of sharing these pivotal leadership insights, skills, and learnings with you, so you can be an EFFECTIVE, TRANSFORMATIONAL, HEART-CENTERED LEADER.

"The greatest untapped potential in the world is clearly locked in a deeply repressed feminine power that exists in all of us.

And I am forever grateful for the unlock" -- 2020 Participant 

Alex and Amy have worked with clients such as...

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Leading with Love Specifics

Group Coaching

  • 8 Ninety (90) minute Live Group Coaching Calls via Zoom

  • 2 Bi-weekly "Thinking" partnerships to deepen in your leadership learning

  • 4 Sixty-minute Private Coaching Sessions 

  • 2 Additional sixty-minute sessions will be added for those who sign-up by Aug. 1st

  • Unlimited email and spot coaching by Amy and Alex


  • 16+ Practical Leadership Skills reviewed and practiced

  • 16 Weeks of deep personal and professional growth and learning

  • Investment fee for the series: $TBD, a payment plan is available upon request   

  • Limited to 8 extraordinary women

  • We begin September 7, 2020


Individual Coaching

Group Coaching Dates & Times

Calls are from 3-5:00pm (Pacific) via Zoom every other week, starting on Sept. 7th

Sept 7,  Sept 21

Oct 5,  Oct 19

Nov 2,  Nov 16

Nov 30,  Dec 14

In this self-mastery coaching series, you will learn to... 

  • TRUST your Inner Compass intimately and lead from WISDOM & VISION

  • EXPERIENCE where your true CONFIDENCE comes from and lead with CLARITY

  • PRACTICE and STRENGTHEN specific leadership skills and lead with INSPIRATION

  • LET GO of any barriers in the way of expressing your loving & life purpose

  • IGNITE your imagination and create the LEGACY you want for your leadership

  • HOLD people accountable in a DIRECT, loving way that calls them forward in their own leadership

  • GIVE & RECEIVE feedback from a place of caring, direct purpose and vision

  • EMBRACE the discomfort of CHANGE and know change is the gateway to growth

  • BE the leader you wish to see in the world, LEAD from your TRUTH

  • CREATE your own Personal Success Leadership Statement to help GUIDE your decision making

What you will leave behind...

  • Leading From Fear—release yourself from the pain of worrying about “me, myself and I”, what will others think, useless suffering from “imposter syndrome”, and buying into the “crisis of confidence” paradigm  

  • Unconscious Leadership—acting out unconscious patterns that get in the way of your leadership

  • Dysfunctional Independence—going it alone, figure things out in isolation

Now is the opportunity to Create The Change You Wish to BE!

If not now, WHEN?




Alex Cary is an executive life coach empowering individuals and organizations to thrive and achieve results with meaning. For over 18 years, she has worked as an internationally established entrepreneur, supporting clients to evaluate and alter the very trajectory of their lives, for the better. Alex’s approach to coaching is based on the premise that outer experience is a reflection of inner reality, and that we already possess the creativity, resourcefulness, and wisdom necessary to reach our highest human potential. In other words, there is nothing within us that needs to be “fixed”. Rather, the opportunity in coaching is to identify and remove perceived limitations that block our true strengths and talents from naturally coming forward.

Alex earned her undergraduate degree in Sociology and Women’s Studies at Simmons University in Boston and began her career in advertising overseeing campaigns with Mazda Motor Cars, Asiana Airlines, DirecTV, and Mattel. In 1999, she launched her first entrepreneurial endeavor as an interior designer, growing her practice to have an international presence while living in Hong Kong and Singapore. Upon receiving her Masters in Spiritual Psychology, Alex followed her heart and launched her professional coaching career. Alex now lives in Los Angeles with her exuberant 8-year-old son, and husband who’s also followed his heart transitioning from the law to fine art painting.

Amy Hruby comes to the field of executive leadership coaching with over 10+ years of coaching experience. Amy’s inner attunement, wisdom, deep listening skills, and genuine caring creates a space that allows her clients the ability to access their own inner wisdom. Her coaching inspires her clients to create new possibilities by supporting them in owning their magnificence and “breaking” next actions into “doable” next steps. She has great success in assisting her clients with achieving more fulfilling, purposeful lives personally and professionally.

Amy has held positions on virtually every rung of the leadership ladder: Administrator, Manager, Director, and the Vice President level. She’s worked for family-owned businesses, institutions of higher education and start-ups. Amy loves serving people and organizations that are making a difference in people’s lives and the world. Supporting leaders in bringing their visions to life is at the heart of her life’s purpose.

Amy holds a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Psychology from Westminster College and a Master’s Degree in Spiritual Psychology from the University of Santa Monica. She also received a Certification in Consciousness, Health & Healing, and a Certification as a Soul-Centered Professional Coach from the University of Santa Monica. She’s been married to her awesome husband John for over 23 years and has two beautiful boys, Connor (17) & Cayden (12), plus two furry babies, Meesha the dog & Oreo the cat. Amy lives in Los Angeles.


Alex & Amy in Action...

Alex and Amy have been collaborating for the past 5 years; serving women and men from all over the world to lead with love. Here are some of the things we've done together: traveled to New Orleans to support a fellow coach & dear friend, we are Executive Coaches at The Alchemy Group, co-facilitated a Women & Money Coaching Group & a Small Business Incubator Coaching Group, and supported Carolyn Freyer-Jones, an Alchemy Group Facilitator at an Alchemy Group leadership training for the Staff of the LA Dodgers.

Small Business Incubator

“Nothing can change until it is faced.”

— James Baldwin